Introductions discussion

Good evening to you. I’m a man of fifty-eight, married for thirty-six years (BION). Even though we’re generally happy, our intimacy had dwindled to almost nothing until recently when I discovered chastity devices online. My wife was initially unsure, but we gave it a shot with some reluctance. We bought a CB 6000 and another model known as the Cock Lock. After testing both, we found the Cock Lock superior; while it is plastic and could theoretically be cut off (though it would be tough and carry some risk of injury), unlike the CB 6000, it offers better comfort.

I’ve been locked up for most of these last four weeks, and I’m loving it. My wife wears the key on a necklace so I can see it against her chest—a detail we both adore. As long as she receives oral pleasure from me daily, she allows release roughly every four days. During our first three encounters outside the device, we had intercourse; however, most recently she made me masturbate in front of her before giving her oral attention. Unintentionally, I’ve grown more submissive and devoted to her, which suits us both well. The sensation is quite fascinating—hard to put into words—but I feel a unique blend of dependence and dedication.

The only real drawback? I have to sit down to pee now, so no more standing urinals for me! Otherwise, it’s very comfortable and easy to wear discreetly under loose trousers. With tight jeans, though, my bulge is quite noticeable, which arouses both her and myself despite knowing I’m not getting any relief until she permits it. It reminds me of what being a eunuch might feel like, except that occasional release is still possible.

So far, we’ve thoroughly enjoyed this arrangement for me. She’s even looked into genital piercings to keep me locked permanently—a thought I never would have imagined from her (and I’m not entirely convinced yet!). It has truly benefited our marriage; we’re closer than we’ve been in years and are having more intercourse as well. I strongly suggest chastity to long-married couples facing similar struggles.