Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

member_6bb8a37b63 · 2026-09-08T22:57:22.000Z · 1 reply

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2026-09-08T22:57:22.000Z #1

The difficulty for me begins here. I am caged at the office all week without my wife knowing. We both go O on Tuesday morning, and she had hers last night. The pleasant ache is starting to rise. What trips me up is managing to “act normal”… avoiding being overly affectionate or needy with her while still giving full attention to our children. I think this was part of the issue during my previous attempt. If she doesn’t pounce on me, I aim for 7-10 days. I know some last much longer.

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2026-09-09T06:58:05.920Z #2

Sorry to interrupt, but reading your recent updates makes it seem like you both enjoy the results; only she isn't aware of why you are suddenly so joyful. I recommend continuing as is, and you're correct not to overdo it. She will eventually comment on your behavior, and I suggest you just come clean about having received a bit of unorthodox help. Explain what device you've been wearing. Let the matter rest. If she asks further, mention that keeping chaste would be easier for you if you weren't constantly tempted by her holding the keys, so it would be a great favor if she took charge of them. This approach is very vanilla-friendly: she can freely say no or yes, and crucially, everything is transparent. I doubt you want her to discover it accidentally by touching your crotch or finding the device hidden away. Nothing will put her off more than feeling deceived or excluded. She might wonder what other secrets exist, whether this has been happening behind her back for a long time, with another person, or online. If you two get a moment to chat, clarify that it is primarily for your benefit, not hers. YOU enjoy the effect on you; you don't need this just because it benefits HER. Just my opinion, wanted to share since I've seen others delay and end up caught rather than making an open, honest request for some sexual enjoyment.

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