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CRIME AND PUNISHMENT After I brought her to climax (with my cage still on, obviously), she announced that I was staying locked up. It was a penalty for some misbehavior. This signified she would engage in some “out of the cage” activities with me (probably no orgasm this time, though you never can tell). She wanted me to understand that my actions had ruined what I thought I’d earned. I genuinely felt guilty about how I acted and regretted causing her trouble. To soften it a bit, she used the Hitachi magic wand on the exterior of the cage for a little chemical boost. Punishment isn’t usual for us; she has often been uneasy or reluctant to discipline me before since it’s still somewhat new to her. But I need that guidance. That is exactly why I handed over the key so she could hold real power. Now, at last, she is actually using it. I wondered if disciplining me was difficult for her, and she replied, “No, it was quite simple.” We both chuckled. It makes me happy to know she is helping me improve for her sake. I truly appreciated this gesture from her—so supportive. Admitting you need assistance can be tough. Surrendering your rights to sexual gratification is also a big step. Yet the leverage it provides for change is incredible. If you trust someone as deeply as my wife, give it a shot.