Introductions discussion

I’ve shared a few posts before, but this is my first proper introduction because I genuinely feel like “I’m doing it the right way for once.” I’m on day two of being locked up and breaking new territory since, for the first time, someone else controls the lock—my wife. Let me explain.

I’ve experimented with chastity solo in the past due to a long-standing interest, but I was too afraid to bring it up with my wife. Earlier this year, while away on work for a month, she bought herself some sex toys. This marked our first time using them together, and it really opened things up between us, breaking down reserve and allowing me to introduce chastity into the relationship. To add another point highlighting how much has changed: we’ve been married for over 30 years and are both in our mid-fifties.

I bought an inexpensive metal cage, similar to the gladiator style shown in my avatar. As mentioned above, I am now locked into this one after several short-term lock-ups, with my wife holding the keys. She enjoys teasing me while it’s on, receiving plenty of attention from me. It might only stay on for a few days because the cage isn’t perfect. However, she doesn’t mind caring for the key; in fact, she is starting to enjoy it and is definitely not freaked out by it. She is happy to integrate it into our lives. Although she currently sees this as short-term, we can refine the details later.

I also purchased an inexpensive Chinese belt suitable for “day play” rather than serious locking up. My wife has no issue with me wearing this belt either and has been content for me to wear it while out shopping at home, which surprised me. She really enjoyed receiving strap-on sex from me a couple of weeks ago while I was in the device; indeed, she seemed more vocal during those sessions than during normal intercourse, which really clarified things for me: she can manage without my penis just fine. Another time, I was strapped to the bed with the belt on, and entirely of her own volition, she inserted a G-spot vibrator up my anus. Neither of us had ever heard of a prostate-induced orgasm before; I was completely taken aback when it happened.

A few days ago, discussing matters, I told her, “I never imagined you’d be happy for me to wear a chastity belt, nor that you’d choose to put a vibrator up my backside.” She replied, “I didn’t imagine you would ever want or let me do so.” This sums up how things have shifted. I look forward to many more years of fun ahead. I’m not sure if chastity is here for the long haul for us, or if it’s just the catalyst for some very intense and enjoyable short-term sexual play. Whatever happens, I am certain it will stay.