Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone… I’m a single white guy in my mid-50s who has slowly become more submissive over the last two to three decades, including through chastity. I picked up my first cage back in early 2015; I was so thrilled I could hardly manage putting it on myself. Three years down the line, I’ve bought a second one. It’s still occasionally tricky to get into, but much easier now. Although I’ve chatted and played with quite a few people online, that scene no longer gives me enough satisfaction for my liking. My goal is to connect with an authentic key holder (KH). The lady doesn’t need prior experience; we could figure out how to blend this practice into our everyday lives together. In the real world, most folks—perhaps all of them—are unlikely to guess at this submissive side of mine that wants to serve. I’ve been keeping myself caged for longer periods and have restrained on my own, eagerly anticipating learning how to stretch my boundaries even further. I hope many of the genuine ladies here grasp the distinction between being a submisive person versus acting foolishly. While I certainly am submissive, I’ve realized that implies I willingly give up control rather than just obeying blindly. A message bringing demands with instructions like ‘if you don’t do this, you aren’t really submissive’ misses the point. Respectfully & thank you.