Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’d like to hear what people think (or, ideally, share their own stories) about cases where a married man has someone other than his wife holding the key. I’m curious about both the practical and moral sides of this. However, we should be careful not to project our personal morals or ‘truths’ onto others while discussing it, so as not to offend anyone.

The circumstances can vary widely depending on how the marriage is doing, how openly they communicate, and what the keyholder does, but all these relationship types seem potentially fascinating. The threads below are somewhat connected, and I’d appreciate knowing of any other helpful discussions on this topic: the referenced community page the referenced community page