Introductions discussion

Hello everyone. I’m a 61-year-old man from Denmark. I’ve always been quite active in experimenting with my sex life, dabbling in SM and spending fifteen years living as a transvestite. Discovering Tantra helped me step out of that role because not being able to live alongside a woman was ruining my happiness—that’s what I want most. A few years back, I dabbled with chastity devices like the CB 3000 and also tried Lori, which used a pin for the PA hole. None of them really stayed on for long stretches though. These days, I’m happily married to a lovely vanilla wife. We share an interest in Tantra and give each other massages. Through practice, I’ve learned how to separate orgasm from ejaculation. By pressing my prostatic muscles while taking deep breaths, I can achieve an orgasm without ejaculating. Recently, while browsing online, I came across the Penicap made by Lust Lock and decided to give it a shot. My wife was happy to help me test it out. I’ve been wearing this device for several weeks now with no issues at all. The balls don’t get pulled up, and sleeping is comfortable; after those first couple of nights, you barely feel it during the day—you might even forget it’s there. I can’t think of a better piece of equipment to wear. I’ve attempted to ejaculate by massaging my shaft, but that alone isn’t enough to make me cum. Massage helps trigger an orgasm—especially when focusing on my nipples and pressing my prostatic area—but no ejaculation occurs. This keeps my arousal levels consistently high. Hopefully, some of you will find this useful. Best regards, Locked Miller