Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Yesterday my wife wanted to reach an orgasm. I queued up a TV show for the kids downstairs and headed upstairs to our bedroom. True to her wishes, I spent time kissing deeply with her, worshipping her breasts, and giving oral sex. Then she ordered me to bring out her toys: the purple vibrator and the pink magic wand. Kneeling between her legs, I stimulated her with these devices while she caressed her own breasts and chatted about how many men she would sleep with while I watched from below. I love this perspective because it gives a bird’s-eye view of her approaching climax. It’s an all-encompassing experience; you can literally watch it ripple through her body until it takes over.

As always, once finished, I cleaned the toys with my mouth and was about to store them when I asked if I could use the wand on my cage. Surprisingly, she agreed. So I turned it on and placed it against my caged penis while still kneeling between her legs. I expected her to tell me to stop at any moment, which would have been acceptable. Instead, she started speaking in dirty talk, but this time it wasn’t just about other men; it included both of us—me fluffing up for her, cleaning her up, and so on.

Now I was getting very aroused and asked if I could cum, though knowing the answer had to be no. My last release had been only three weeks prior, so there was little chance she’d say yes, yet that’s exactly what happened. She reached down, grabbed my balls, pulled gently, and told me this is how I’ll start coming from now on—I will never cum unlocked again. That pushed me over the edge, and I shot long streams of semen. Because my penis is compressed within the cage, it spurts out at odd angles, landing partly on her and partly on the bedspread. She commanded me to clean up the mess before heading into the shower.

I was genuinely surprised that she allowed me to cum, but also that my post-climax feelings differed from anything I’d felt before. For one thing, there was considerable pain; my balls burned because of the ring pulling during my attempted erection, and my penis ached from the vibrations. However, I didn’t experience the usual post-orgasm crash or lose any of my submissive devotion to my wife. My dissatisfaction with this orgasm wasn’t due to wanting denial, but rather that the method itself was unpleasant.

It was also a real mind-f*** because I was certain she would tell me to stop throughout. It was truly unexpected. Most previous times, I could sense an release coming based on what was happening in our lives at the moment. On one hand, I think she did it out of kindness to make up for last week’s harsh punishment. On the other hand, she has discussed her frustration with my behavior after cumming and hinted that trying this as my only method might be a New Year’s resolution for 2018. So is this a trial run?