Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hi, So I’m relatively new to the forum, but not to the lifestyle. I’m 22 years old and have been interested in chastity for about eight years now. Last year, I finally met a girl with whom I felt a great connection and who allowed me to be myself. We first connected over our shared interest in chastity, though we put that topic on the back-burner while getting to know each other better. She lives about 1000 miles away since we are long distance, but we usually manage to meet up once a month. Our one-year anniversary is approaching soon, and I asked her what she thought of me getting a PA (permanently attached) device for the occasion. I was leaning toward ordering a Lori’s device, though open to other suggestions if anyone has recommendations. She feels a bit apprehensive because we are each other’s first significant others; she knows that a PA is permanent and worries that if she leaves down the road, I will still have a second hole in my penis. While she loves the idea of me being locked securely in a device, she isn’t entirely fond of the notion that I’ll never be quite the same again. I wanted to get the community’s opinions on my situation; you all seem very knowledgeable and helpful. Regards, DJ