Introductions discussion

Hello. I am new to this site and also fairly fresh to chastity. Right now, my wife is quite vanilla so I’m keeping it a secret. We don’t share a bedroom mainly because of my snoring rather than any dislike between us. I have fantasized about female led relationships for most of my life, but always found that the ladies weren’t dominant enough for me. It happened somehow and I never had the nerve to tell anyone. I want to let my wife in on this so she can hold the key to my penis, though I worry the change in our dynamic might make her walk away. It’s actually scarier wanting to confess than knowing that if she says yes, I’ll be locked for her pleasure. I’m sure many guys have been through this situation so I’ll keep reading and try to figure things out.