Introductions discussion

I’d appreciate hearing from anyone who has successfully explained their wish to wear chastity to a standard or even submissive wife. This comes from my initial introduction… Hello, I’m a guy in his forties, married to a younger woman. I’ve always leaned toward submission. Last year, hoping to strengthen our marriage, I quit masturbating and shared some secrets with her. It went well for a while, and the shifts in my emotions and physical reactions really surprised me. I also became quite adept at reading her cycle, anticipating her needs, spending more quality time together, and being responsive during the night. However, she mentioned that there wasn’t much benefit for her as the dominant partner. We spent several months where I took charge, exploring various bondage scenarios and scenes, which she enjoys, especially when I take her in the mornings. I genuinely loved it too, getting hooked on dressing her up seductively and experimenting with restraints. During this sexually charged period, she seemed open to being a bit of an evil dominatrix part-time, but I didn’t want to disrupt our dynamic…I was the Master. BUT… lately, due to “life” (work, kids, etc.), her libido has dropped, and I’ve started craving that dominant wife again. Our communication is much better now compared to last year. Last week, in a spontaneous moment, I bought a CB6000. It’s on right now and I absolutely love it! The sensations are fascinating; this is day three. I remove it at home so no one notices. So…I need to determine my objective and how to present this to her submissive wife. Am I aiming for occasional play? A full lifestyle? What can I get her to agree to and enjoy? It seems like the real challenge lies in convincing a wife who might go along but doesn’t necessarily gain much unless it’s a game we play when she’s aroused. Another issue is that she does love cuddling with me intensely and being taken sometimes, not always. So, welcome to my dilemma. -WEC