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member_65fa0f18b2 · 2026-09-08T15:05:17.000Z · 1 reply

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2026-09-08T15:05:17.000Z #1

I don’t recall ever posting an intro before, so I decided to do one now. Even though some might say otherwise, I’m not a full-time professional Mistress. I have a solid career and a degree from ********* University (just pointing that out so you don’t picture me as some sort of heel-wearing bimbo:) ) I’m 24, single (but not searching!), and I’ve always had a dominant nature. That doesn’t mean I need to whip people or humiliate them with pegging. It simply means I like taking control of men and getting them to follow my orders, whatever those may be. My dominance style isn’t the classic sort; I rarely have to act ‘dominant’ because the men naturally do what I want without me pushing it on them. I don’t hate men, nor am I cruel or mean to my subs—I view them more as friends who understand their role.:) I consider myself a bit of a geek, with interests in sci-fi, Star Wars, Doctor Who, The Walking Dead, and more. I also adore computers, gadgets, and tech. Photography is another interest of mine, and over the past few years, I’ve built up quite a following on fetish sites largely thanks to my cosplay pictures. It’s been great fun; truly a splendid adventure:) I discovered chastity about four years ago. Before that, I’d never really heard of it until joining a fetish site and receiving numerous messages from men saying, “I’ll do whatever you want if you hold the keys to my cock!” That statement hasn’t entirely proved true; most guys only seem to want me to cater to what THEY desire. I’m not one who lives and breathes chastity all day long. Like many wives of members here, I mostly see it as a practical tool for making men more useful in their roles. Right now, I hold the keys for two online subs, plus an older real-life sub (who isn’t currently locked up) who helps me out with errands, shopping, driving, and other tasks. None of this is sexual; serving is its own reward. I’m not here hunting for more keys or subs; rather, I like the idea of bringing chastity into the mainstream. I believe many vanilla women would appreciate it if they understood how making their partners more obedient can benefit them.

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2026-09-08T21:38:09.080Z #2

Considering how strange those early requests must have seemed—asking you to lock up a man's penis when it was clear they actually wanted *you* to serve their desires rather than the reverse—what kept you going in exploring male chastity? Also, given other discussions about encouraging more women into this lifestyle, what stopped you from retreating to the hills and wondering why men seemed so revolting?

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