I’ve had mine reduced from a couple years ago being whenever I wanted to the occasional ruined orgasm mixed in to a couple times a week to once a week to once a week ruined always to once a week ruined self induced with an occasional extra from her or sex to all ruined all month and always self induced. I’m guessing it will reduce now to once a month.
> When we first started I would get a PIV orgasm about once a week. Then it was a couple times a month. Then PIV was reduced to about once a month. After about 18 months of being locked I'm up to 6 months since my last PIV orgasm and now my wife says I only get to cum in my cage. She says that I don't deserve PIV anymore and she has found my oral and her vibe satisfy her much more now. She has become much more dominant in her role and she's loving it. She does say she misses the real thing sometimes but not mine. She's an amazing woman.
> Although we were into BDSM for most of our 45 years of marriage, there was some orgasm denial involved. Once my wife had her girlfriend move in, she was more interested in sex with her friend than with me, unless I just had sex with her friend. Intercourse was the first go about 20 years ago and then oral became a special occasion thing. For the last 5-10 years, sex was for the girls and not me. I would assist them as directed but rarely was I allowed to give them an orgasm. I was often just left in bed when they were done or sometimes told to masturbate while they were torturing my nipples, choking me, etc.. Most of my orgasms were by masturbation. That is how we got into chastity. From there my wife gradually increased my orgasm denial period. We are currently denying me for 3 months but her goal is one orgasm a year but I think we will keep it as 6 months max. It is simply if you get used to no orgasm for 30 days, you can then do 35 the next time. So it was gradual over the last 5 years.