Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

So I had a point when I started typing this but I forgot what it was. I kept going because I thought it was funny. personwhoreplies: You’re topping from the bottom which is wrong and you need to just passively wait for her lead. schastitypersonthatistryingrealhard: Sigh, I guess you’re right. I’ll just have keep bringing her breakfast and bed and giving her foot rubs and massages and buying her flowers and wearing panties. Maybe someday she’ll see that I’m unsatisfied and she’ll want to give me sexual fulfillment. schastitypersonthatistryingrealhard: I finally told her about chastity and she’s agreed to keep me locked and hold the key. It was amazing for three days. Then the novelty wore off but I hoped she’d become more dominant in response to my submission. It’s been two months now and I’ve been trying to be submissive in such a way as to encourage her dominant side, but it’s not working. How do I get her to be more dominant? otherpersonewhoreplies: See, there you go again dude. Wearing panties without her telling you to won’t get you anywhere. If you’re submissive than you shouldn’t insert your sexual preferences where they don’t belong. You need to remain silent and asexual until she initiates and tells you what to do. otherotherpersonwhoreplies: This is correct, you are topping from the bottom. Be patient. I have achieved chastity nirvana by doing these very things. You will never reach chastity nirvana if you top from the bottom.