Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

We read all kinds of stuff about penis size and no PIV, etc.. as reasons to lock the male’s penis up. I have additional reasons. My wife does not find a penis or even a male’s butt attractive. She is attracted to the female body. Her past attempts at sex with men other than me resulted in no orgas for he and an experience that she disliked because aside from no orgams, there was no passion and feelings for the other guy. She chose me as her only male but had sex with 3 women,with the last one moving in with us and being in our marriage and bed for 30 years. At first I was the focus of our nightly threesomes but over time the girls no longer wanted intercourse and lost interest in penises. Thy do not find a penis, male butt and unless the guy is buff, the male form to be aesthetically pleasing. So why am I locked up 24/7? My penis fits perfectly in a 1 1/4” cage. It triples in size when erect. Our girlfriend was my size and had a kid so she never could feel me inside her when we had intercourse. In fact she never believed me when I told her that I ejaculated because she felt nothing and would have to check by feel. Half of the time my penis would slip out an I ended up ejacualtiing on her rather than in her. My wife has medical issues with her vagina and never gets an orgasm from just intercourse so oral was our main sex especially when it was found out that I was sterile, another reasons why my penis was useless to the two ladies. No one remembers the last time we had intercourse. Best guess is 15-20 years ago, maybe longer. Then when I developed ED and anorgasmic problems from my various antidepressants and diabetes, my penis was truly useless for anything. That was handled BDSM play especially CBT and ballbusting. There were no good chastity devices in my time, at least any that would fit a penis less than an inch and a half long. When we discovered the CB series we bought one. My wife did not want to deal with semen or having sex so much so the CB6000 along with orgams denial appealed to her. Our girlfriend of 30 years was out of the picture by then. My wife now has 99% of her orgasms by her vibrator and reminds me often that she has no use for my penis anymore and If I die before her, she will marry a woman and be done with men. So I am married to a wife who truly has absolutely no use for my penis and it is not pretend fantasy stuff but the real thing. When it is make believe you know that your penis is really not that small and your wife still enjoys it, maybe not as often though. For me, no one enjoys my penis and during sex its only purpose is to be edged to produce moans of sexual frustration which brings on my wife’s orgasms very quickly or to stay locked up so I do not even get the pleasure of being edged. She does like to hold onto my penis when using her vibrator though. It think it is a vestigial thing. Most times I cannot get erect without a lot of Viagra and even the, sometimes it does not work. In my current circumstances I can be the cover boy for male chastity. Unable to use his penis for anything a woman would need it for, married to a keyholder who does not even like the looks of a penis and treats semen like battery acid. It works because I no longer have to stress out about whether I can get hard or not and no worries about performing any intercourse or other sexual act. She will allow me to perform oral a few times a year but her orgasms was usually weaker than the ones she gets from her vibrator. I call them pity orgasms because she wants me to know that while she prefers women, it does not mean that she dislikes men. Just like enjoying the red M&Ms more than the chocolate ones. They are all good but some appear to you more. To tell the truth, I like being locked up all the timer. I do not have to worry about sexual performance at all. I like feeling sexually aroused all the time and even though I may ejaculate without an erection most times, I still have an intense one. My wife has been able to minimize time spent with my disgusting boy thing and enjoys teasing me to frustration. She likes it so much that she laughs at my sexual frustration. In short, chastity fits us perfectly. We do not have to make up reasons for locking me up in a cager and why I deserve teasing and denial. I could not give my wife a baby or even use a surrogate. Intercourse was uncomfortable for she and she hardly felt me. I often heart her ask me if I came or not. We do not pretend that she is superior because she is a woman or I do it for any of the reasons you read about on the web. I am in chastity because it perfectly fits our sexual situation and has turned what was becoming a bad sex life into something exciting and fun. My inability to impregnate women was both a blessing and curse. Without the worry of pregnancy I hardly ever wore a condom as STD’s were very rare in our social strater and most of my sex life was preAIDS. Husbands whose wives was into sex without any protection sought me out and I would pretend I had impregnated several women and make it sound like the wife’s chances of getting pregnant were high which in turn ramped up her excitement and orgasm level. Not having to worry about impregnating girls was the only good part of that. My wife’s girlfriend used my sterility as a reason to punish my penis and testicles very brutally. No worry of hurting them and making me sterile and she used to tell me that she had wanted my wife to get pregnant at the same time as her but I could not make that happen and ruined their plans. So how much of a rule does your penis really play in chastity.? Is it really small and unable to sexually satisfy your wife? Other than mastrubation prevention, is it locked up for other reasons like cuckolding or D/s games. Mine is locked up simply because my wife has no use for it. It is not done to humiliate me. Even if not locked up the best I could hope for is a handjob, mostly done on myself. So I lock it up and make a fun sex game out of it. Does your penis really deserved to be locked up or it is just part of the chastity game?