Introductions discussion

Hi everyone, I’m here to say hello. My spouse and I are fresh faces around here. I joined up looking for guidance and insights, wanting to connect with others and find a group that can assist us as we figure things out. I’ve always had some kink in me, while my wife tends toward the conventional side, so I usually viewed chastity and cuckolding merely as daydreams. I wasn’t certain they’d actually hold up if we gave them a go. We’ve talked about swinging for quite some time, but hesitated to dive in because sleeping with people we don’t know well feels uncomfortable, and it’s tricky bringing it up with close friends. Lately though, one of her buddies—someone she usually teases playfully—has started making bolder remarks. She checked if I was still cool with the idea of swinging and what I thought about her hooking up with him in that scenario. That sparked a deep chat, and to cut through the details: we’re planning to mix chastity into the deal as she explores taking partners outside our home, perhaps even adding more down the line (she’s hinted at keeping me locked up so I don’t slip and masturbate when her desire is low compared to mine). This isn’t a forever setup for sure, nor are we strictly aiming for an FLR dynamic. She doesn’t mind if I sleep with other women eventually; it’s just that I haven’t got anyone specific in view or being pursued right now. So here I am! Great to meet you all.