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I’m a regular reader making my debut as a poster.
Decided it was time to share what’s happened so far in my journey. My interest in chastity started way back when I was driving with an ex-girlfriend. She leaned over and played with my cock while I drove, getting me really worked up before leaving me high and dry until we arrived home. Not being able to cum for about half an hour nearly drove me mad.
Back then, I had no idea male chastity belts or cages existed, so it just sat there as a vague background fetish(?) for several years.
Around seven years ago, with my current partner (then my new girlfriend), I stumbled across male chastity online. The concept definitely appealed to me. However, she was quite vanilla; she’d never really used any sex toys—doggy style was practically daring behavior for her!
After a couple of years of gentle persuasion, she started enjoying teasing and denying me, which satisfied me greatly (even if it frustrated me too).
About that time, she began working late shifts. This meant I had several hours alone at home each evening—lots of porn and masturbation for me. Often when she got home, she was disappointed to find I’d already cum (she could tell because my cock stayed soft longer than usual).
At this point, I suggested keeping my cock locked while she worked. I showed her the CB3000 online, but she saw the price tag and gave a firm NO—“we’re not wasting our money on that…”
One drunken evening shortly after, I bought a cheap device—I think it’s called “Gates of Hell”—complete with rubber cock and ball rings. I modified it slightly by adding a couple of padlocks to fashion my own kind of chastity cage. It was bloody uncomfortable and very easy to slip out of, but it did the job. When wearing it, I didn’t masturbate and felt much hornier for her when she returned… She eventually accepted it as my weird quirk, though she seemed happier that I wasn’t jerking off every night.
A couple more years rolled by, with plenty of discussions along the way, leading up to my birthday.
She gave me a card containing £100 with a note saying “for your P cage”… WoW! I ordered the new CB6000 right then and there.
Not much changed in reality though—I’m always the one initiating wearing the cage, she tolerates it well, and although she keeps the key, she is very keen to take the cage off at any opportunity—usually that same evening before bed. Sometimes she falls asleep while I’m still locked up, so I get to wear it overnight (yeah, it’s painful—but worth it!).
The longest I’ve been in the CB6000 was one week (when I was away on business), and with her nearby, about 3 days.
This time around, however, I put mine on Tuesday. It’s now Friday evening and I’m still wearing it—think she may be starting to realize that when I’m locked up, she tends to get more drinks made for her, the cleaning gets done, and she receives massages… We’ll see how this goes!.
My overall goal is to acquire some kind of steel belt. It would be impractical for daily wear at work—I do lots of manual labor, climbing over and under things—a builder’s bum wouldn’t suit a NeoSteel!!!