Chastity device reviews discussion

My wife and I have been practicing chastity play for about three years now. We began with a CB-2000 and later upgraded to the significantly better CB-3000. However, we didn’t care for the sometimes noticeable bulge in my pants. Sleeping was also tricky because lying on my stomach felt nearly impossible, and early morning erections kept me awake. Searching for a device with a smaller profile, we tested the Exobelt Extreme, but it turned out to be very hard to put on and too uncomfortable for me to wear. Another issue with most chastity devices is that when you have children, they sometimes bump into them. Having a rigid chastity cage between your legs can make a child notice something unusual, which isn’t ideal. When I spotted photos of the Lancelot, my wife and I were immediately excited but also slightly cautious due to past letdowns with other devices that seemed promising in pictures but fell short in reality. The Lancelot from Madame Dura’s online store features a flexible cage constructed from small stainless steel rings. This is the same material used for professional protective gloves when cutting meat or other foods. The Lancelot functions like a metal sock encasing your penis. Because of this special construction, it is extremely flexible. Otherwise, the device operates similarly to a CB-3000: it traps the balls. I ordered the Lancelot with a total length slightly greater than my flaccid penis size so I could grow at night without waking up. If the cage is too long, you might still manage some self-gratification with effort. My suggestion for picking the correct cage length is to not exceed the average of your erect and non-erect measurements. Other sizes to consider are the main ring diameter and the cage width. Additionally, as a special request, you can select the distance between the base main ring and the cage ring (where the metal sock attaches). Be careful here: if ordered too large, your balls might slip through. Thus, I chose the circular main ring with a small 8 mm gap between it and the cage ring; usually, this is 10 mm. The one-piece circular main ring model costs less than the hinged “anatomically shaped” version but is harder to put on. Upon receiving the device, my wife and I were happy with its excellent (German) craftsmanship. Our only concern was potential irritation or pinching from the cage itself. Fortunately, this proved fine. Actually, we are very pleased with this chastity device after using it for a few months while being locked up for periods of up to a week. While there may not be a perfect chastity device globally, this one is quite close for us. Disadvantages include: urinating cleanly without making a mess is tough (you have to sit), you can’t wear it on planes (metal detectors) and the “pulling back/out” issue isn’t fully resolved. This happens if you have a large scrotum, allowing you to move the main ring far enough from your body to pull your penis out. Even then, your balls remain trapped. I don’t think this looks very appealing to a secret partner, but masturbation is definitely possible in that scenario. Putting the penis back into the device is even harder than pulling it out, so my wife (correctly) doesn’t worry about this “issue.” Another drawback is that you can stimulate your penis somewhat due to the cage’s flexibility. To prevent accidental masturbation this way, one should buy the smallest possible size. Anyway, if you want 100% security against masturbation, you’ll need another device. For my wife and me, benefits like comfort and small profile outweigh this partial lack of security. The price varies between 250 and 500 Euro depending on the type of lock (integrated or separate) and main ring (single part or hinged). My advice is to try a cheaper plastic device like a CB-6000 first to get all sizes right and gain experience with this style. For a family man like me, whose wife controls my sex life, this chastity device is the only one I can wear 24/7 without embarrassment or unnecessary discomfort. Readers with specific questions about this device are welcome to e-mail me and I will try to answer if possible.