Introductions discussion

I’ve been watching the forums and just signed up today. Chastity has held my interest for ages, and my wife is on board with it too; she’s actually starting to enjoy it. I don’t go for extremes. I simply like the denial and teasing. It feels to me as if foreplay can stretch out over days or even longer. With some nerves, I’ve decided to lock up in September under my wife’s rule before her eyes. She hasn’t been too hard on denying me in the past, but lately it seems she has gotten used to keeping me denied. She really likes having all that attention since I’m constantly turned on. A couple of years back, I experimented with a plastic contraption (the CB-3000 series—can’t quite recall if it was 3000 specifically). It wasn’t very comfortable; the fit was too tight for hygiene and didn’t feel secure. Eventually, I broke free from within (it split open and then pinched me!), so I’m done with plastic forever. Just a few weeks ago, I bought my current unit here: This model can be found online under many different brand names, but I ordered straight from the factory. Delivery was quick (took a week) though pricey. All things considered, it still cost less than buying elsewhere (US $48). Don’t rely too much on product descriptions—I certainly didn’t expect stainless steel at that price point. It’s made of chromed metal rather than pure stainless steel. However, it is custom-fitted for me—much better than the CB-3000 which required endless adjustments and was less comfortable overall. I’m pleased with it but don’t wear it around the clock. Without a piercing, its security is on par with other devices, but that’s fine since I’m not ready to get pierced yet. Being locked in isn’t strictly necessary for fidelity, though I do prefer it. For extra fun, sometimes I use Kanka (a Blistex product containing 20% Benzocaine) along with a condom. Within minutes, sensation disappears completely.