Introductions discussion

I am another newcomer to chastity. I follow a mostly cyber dom who lives just a few hours away. Because I keep touching my penis, he intends to lock me up with penetration involved. My long-term goal is being locked around the clock while penetrated, though I can adjust at my own pace until I get used to this state (being high-functioning autistic presents some challenges). Naturally submissive due to my spectrum condition, I am finally gathering the courage to be enslaved by a dom and explore it further. While he chooses the cage, it appears to be an Attica Hell 3 which should fit me well; the penetrating urethral tube is removable for cleaning (and getting accustomed to having it inside) without needing to unlock, something he appreciated. I am not deeply into the broader BDSM world, but rather the enforced control over when I can cum or engage in sex play with others. Still have much reading and many great stories here to go through. Mike the Aspie.