Introductions discussion

Hi all! I’m really happy to have stumbled upon this place. It’s something I’ve been searching for forever. I’m Universalslave, and my Queen has had me under her wing for a year now. We live separately but manage to spend most of our weekends and holidays together. Depending on how she feels, she’ll either pamper me or put me in bans, though distance makes it tricky for her to keep tabs on things directly. So we picked up a cage that fits perfectly and feels wonderful. However.. I’m struggling with sleeping while wearing it, plus I get a bit of anxiety when taking it out into the world and even to work. I plan to browse this site more closely for advice and tips to help me sort these issues out. Looking forward to chatting with you all soon:lock: