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- Jan 1970
Greetings everyone. Let me share some context about my/our experience with chastity. I put the proposal to my wife on her birthday, in March. I had done thorough research into both the topic and the lifestyle. A trip to a local adult store led me to buy a silicone cage. I strapped it on immediately upon returning home. That evening, I handed over the keys to my spouse. The road from there involved plenty of dialogue, experiments, and mistakes until we reached our current state. I still feel some hesitation regarding what my kh is thinking. Realizing that springing this change on her might not have been ideal helps, but I pressed ahead anyway. She accepted responsibility for the keys, and here we are today. So far, things remain quite standard. There isn’t excessive time in the device (t/d). My kh doesn’t particularly care for the humiliation side of the lifestyle. Having said that, her behavior, talks, and enthusiasm have matched what I pictured at times. Now that introductions are done, I look forward to chatting with others about their unique takes on chastity. I want to emphasize how crucial communication is in this way of life. My kh can get weary of my endless discussions on the subject. I must balance things carefully so as not to overwhelm or “wear her out” too much. My headspace fluctuates, especially now that she tends toward a more vanilla approach; it feels like being locked away and stored. Part of me wants to talk about it with her, while another part thinks this is simply who she has chosen to lead the dynamic. I should mention my kh receives excellent care through pampering, an increase in household duties on my end, and attention to her sexual needs. Last August, I drafted a chastity agreement for a minimum of one year. After reviewing it multiple times and posing questions, my kh signed off on it. The excitement was immense. Since the signing, I’ve completed exactly one full period, which ended 17 days ago. I could handle staying locked longer if needed, but other household tasks require my attention! Appreciate you reading!! Capt