Online chastity and self locking discussion

member_94f2d01bb6 · 2026-09-13T18:50:38.000Z · 1 reply

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2026-09-13T18:50:38.000Z #1

Hi all, I experiment with being in chastity periodically. Sometimes I lock up, other times I don’t. Currently, it’s been two weeks since my last unlock. While I genuinely enjoy the restraint, there is a catch: The longer I stay locked, the more isolated I feel emotionally at certain moments. This isn’t about sexual frustration or lacking a partner; horny feelings are separate from emotions in this context^^. You might think this is positive because it pushes me to seek out a companion more actively? Not really. I’m not particularly outgoing. My circle of friends has remained the same for over a decade. Social settings aren’t my strong suit. The extended time in the device makes me feel lonelier, but I also become increasingly withdrawn. This is tricky because I don’t want to abandon chastity entirely. Does anyone else share this issue and perhaps have some tips? Appreciate it

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2026-09-14T05:12:08.240Z #2

Uaral, When you lock yourself up on your own, do you worry about someone finding out? Or is there a sense of shame attached to wearing the cage? Either fear could make you pull away from others even more than usual. If my assessment is correct, wearing the chastity device becomes a way of opting out of socializing. Is that accurate for your situation? If so, perhaps it's worth reconsidering how often you wear the device. Or, when you do decide to keep it on, make a deliberate choice about whether or not to interact with others.

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