Online chastity and self locking discussion

Hi Locked Pop, Building trust in an online relationship is a bit of a challenge (at least for me). I've nurtured several relationships to a solid level and haven't looked back. The key factor here is time. Take it easy, proceed slowly, and get to know your key holder well. When I begin with someone new, I usually keep my safe override key handy but make sure the key holder knows what's going on. If they're okay with that arrangement, you have a good foundation. If they push back, take that as *possibly* being a warning sign. Over time, you'll learn enough about them to decide whether locking yourself in completely is right for you. Regarding Emlalock and Chastikey: I'll start with the simpler one first—ChastiKey. I've been using and experimenting with it for roughly a year now (and yes, full disclosure, I serve as a moderator). I’ve interacted with various key holders there and maintained several long-term connections. It seems quite popular. One distinct advantage ChastiKey has over Emlalock is its Discord presence. There’s an open server where users can gather, converse, and tease one another. The community vibe is excellent, providing a solid channel for key holders to communicate with their lockees. The app itself is fairly stable; while it does have some quirks, the developer addresses them regularly with frequent updates. For dynamic play with a real person, ChastiKey works beautifully. Even if you're doing solo play, there are ways to make it function well. Now for Emlalock. I’ve dabbled with it a bit. What stands out to me is the voting and pillory features, plus the games—something ChastiKey currently lacks. I haven't noticed (or found) an active chat community among members there yet; that would be a nice addition. Between the two platforms, my preference goes to Chastikey due to its strong community (both Discord and website forums). The key holders are top-notch. I doubt you’d arrive at ChastiKey without finding someone suitable or any lock options that might lead to losing control. Hope this assists, qD