Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Do any of the Ladies and gentlemen here favor the advantages of long-term chastity without a device for men, and if so, how closely is it monitored (if at all)? I often feel like perhaps the only person in this community who goes without some sort of apparatus. I realize people frequently call it an ‘honor system,’ but I prefer to view prolonged retention while serving the Divine Feminine through tantric practice as an honor on its own merit. The dilemma is intriguing: I have practiced device-free retention for so long with my Goddess partner’s close guidance (more support than strict supervision) that it has become second nature. I have come to accept the many intricate, sometimes tough hyper-emotions linked to going months without ejaculation, yet I occasionally envy the dynamic between a Keyholder and her locked submissive—the man’s total dependence on her and the unique intimacy they share despite physical distance (whether near or far). Plus, I adore that this community is largely owned and run by an exquisitely lovely Goddess with a self-assurance I rarely see elsewhere, along with a key-holding philosophy capable of bringing tears to any submissive male’s eyes. Am I envious? Likely yes!