Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

member_34364e7dd9 · 2026-09-13T20:51:25.000Z · 4 replies

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2026-09-13T20:51:25.000Z #1

This came to mind while I was reading through another thread on the forum - didn’t want to take over that one so… For those of us locked up and for those who wear the lockers too - in everyday life, not some fantasy scenario, who would you let know about your chastity? Your immediate family - moms, dads, aunts, uncles, or maybe (adult) kids? The friends closest to you, people you just know, coworkers at work, or perhaps your very best friend? People you don’t really know but start chatting with, or perhaps someone else who seems involved in the community too? Why would they need to be aware? I imagine many prefer to keep the secret safe, hiding their keys and cages away completely, feeling utterly humiliated if discovered. Keep it grounded in reality (RL) rather than your fantasy world.

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2026-09-13T22:54:12.887Z #2

For us, real life involves striding around bare except for the cage, hand-in-hand with my lovely queen at motorcycle events. We've been doing this in Kansas for about four years now. For two of those years in Kentucky, we were also displaying our cages. There have been countless hours spent talking to others about the device while at these rallies. It has reached a stage where acquaintances who have encountered us previously will bring along their first-time rally-goer friends specifically so they can witness the look of surprise on our faces. Sometimes those new folks want to flee, but other times it piques their curiosity and they stay for an hour or more chatting.

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2026-09-14T11:16:16.840Z #3

> Queensbitch said: > For us, real life involves striding around bare except for the cage, hand-in-hand with my lovely queen at motorcycle events. We've been doing this in Kansas for about four years now. For two of those years in Kentucky, we were also displaying our cages. > There have been countless hours spent talking to others about the device while at these rallies. > It has reached a stage where acquaintances who have encountered us previously will bring along their first-time rally-goer friends specifically so they can witness the look of surprise on our faces. > Sometimes those new folks want to flee, but other times it piques their curiosity and they stay for an hour or more chatting. > Click to expand... That appeals to me as well. I'd like to visit a place where no one knows me and proudly display my kink.

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2026-09-14T20:03:56.341Z #4

I have displayed my chastity belt to several people, including potential new customers who visited behindbarz's workshop. I would strip off from my regular daytime attire to reveal what was underneath. I also attended an exhibition they were hosting at a Manchester Leathermen market and was requested to undress in front of the audience to demonstrate what I am locked into beneath. Hopefully, I didn't offend anyone with this gesture since people always asked if it bothered me to show them how it truly appears in everyday life.

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2026-09-15T08:32:35.192Z #5

My best friend is aware of a certain amount, and one of my wife's friends knows a bit as well. I have never explicitly shown anyone yet.

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