Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My girlfriend and keyholder have only been practicing chastity cage use with orgasm denial for about three weeks, so we are still figuring out our preferences.

It is moving forward quickly though. When I first brought it up, she was totally on board. By that night, I was already locked in a CB 6000, folding laundry while wearing just the cage and some sandals. To top it off, her excitement got so high she called her sister to explain what was happening before I could even finish one load of towels! She has essentially decided I am going into long-term orgasm denial. We have already done three ruined orgasm sessions.

I bought my gf a Kindle as a gift. I loaded Georgia Green’s first two books plus some erotica focused on male chastity onto it, all of which she is devouring rapidly. This morning she mentioned that she “accidentally” downloaded Georgia’s third book, the one dealing with setting up an FLR!

I made a slip by mentioning I saw something online about Sarah Jameson’s “Be Careful What You Wish For,” thinking it sounded too intense for us. Guess what? She wanted to try it. So I sent her the PDF to her phone not long ago.

By the way, I am digging through all these forums and reading old threads (thanks everyone!).

Finally, I have rush-ordered an MM Jalbird because the CB 6000 is really chafing me up. It ought to arrive this week!

Of course, we’ve had a few “timeouts” to discuss our understanding of where things stand and where they are heading, as well as what works for us in our relationship.

I am working on not topping from the bottom. And yes, I have received one punishment with a wooden spoon already.

It has been a headlong rush indeed. I love it all. But like my excitement, so is my anxiety. I am particularly nervous now after sending her that Sarah Jameson book this morning!

Again, thanks everyone for being such a helpful resource.

It will be fun to see where this journey goes!