Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Remember that this practice often makes men extra horny, and there may be demands disguised as submission. Explore it for a while, then have an honest conversation about what he (claims) to want versus what you actually get out of it. See how your respective realities align with those fantasies over time. Stay honest and adjust along the way; remain flexible during these learning phases. Beyond that, expect plenty of experimentation with different devices and comfort levels. Usually, you end up trying several types of chastity before settling on a long-term choice.

I hope chastity helps rekindle the intimacy between you and your husband. Although my Miss and I always had a good relationship, our closeness was fading; chastity has really brought our passion back to full strength. Don't worry about being vanilla or needing to make huge leaps into kink. Do what feels comfortable for you and test your limits when ready. Test his limits too—make him try things he never thought he would do; that's part of the fun, in my view. If you really want to show him how much like a “walking vagina” you felt, you could introduce strap-on play and turn him into your walking partner. I know that’s a big shift from vanilla, but imagine the power dynamic if it were you giving it to him a few times a week while he waits hopefully for an orgasm sometime next month lol. You can see how this works in your favor... have fun with it and do what suits you!:) and welcome to CM:)

Enjoy the Journey. Give him what he wants and needs, not just what he asks for. He wants chastity and you to control when he has an orgasm again—that is taking charge. When he asks to be released it’s only the beginning; when he begs, that's when true chastity starts. An orgasm should be viewed as a great privilege that you control, granted rarely once earned. There will be growing pains, but if you do things he enjoys (making him wet without letting him cum), he’ll adjust to this new lifestyle and your relationship can definitely improve. Also have him treat you like the Queen you are to earn his release. Enjoy his devotion to pleasing you and always remember that he doesn’t *have* to cum. Cumming is a treat that you control. Good Luck.