Introductions discussion

Hello, My spouse and I have been together for two decades, sharing a wonderful bond of partnership and friendship. That said, she has never had much interest in sex—any type—and it really affected my self-worth and confidence. Consequently, I began exploring power dynamics and the feeling of being utilized. It resonated with me, so I requested her to take charge by locking me up; I even purchased a CB-6000 as proof of commitment. Her initial reaction was strong opposition. Years passed, and I moved up to a steel cage while revealing my status to her, though she remains uninterested. She views it as an unpleasant fetish and insists on total equality between us. I physically crave the confinement—the sensation feels more tangible than intense hunger after skipping meals. It seems hard for her to grasp, but I trust that my overall submission will gradually win her over. Perhaps eventually, she’ll become more accepting. Any advice would be appreciated. I’ve recommended female-authored blogs on gentle topics and introduced her to FLR couples in person, yet haven’t had much success so far.