Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

If you’re locked and the instruction is to hold off, isn’t it wrong of me to pleasure myself anyway??? This evening everything was going really well, but he decided to cum all over me while still wearing his cage. Needless to say, I wasn’t happy at all:mad0214: and what did I get out of that? NOTHING. He’s the one who introduced me to this lifestyle here in the mansion. I’ve asked him if he actually reads the threads he sends my way; I feel like we both need a refresher on reading comprehension. Isn’t the entire point of locking up to avoid exactly this scenario? All I received was I’m sorry. Well, newsflash: an “I’m sorry” won’t cut it—it will take LOTS more than that. He was instructed to shave and clean up because he’s going to be in there for a looooong time now. I don’t think he realized how angry I am right now… or still am!!! What would happen if you did the same thing?????