Female led relationships discussion

Hello. A little background on me. I’ve worn chastity for the past few years, mostly intermittently. My spouse and I felt it was time to switch to a custom device so we could extend the periods between release. The new cage is expected in about two weeks. We’re also considering adopting some aspects of Female-Led Relationship dynamics once I’m locked up again.

Now for the main part: enjoying holidays with family has always been something I appreciate, usually involving travel and spending a few days away from home. This Thanksgiving was similar, though we had extra guests for dinner. A couple (friends of my in-laws) joined us along with their toddler. Seeing them sparked excitement about what might be ahead for me. My wife didn’t have to do much unless she wanted to; her husband attended to her needs as directed by her. When the child needed a diaper change, he handled it at her command. If she wanted more wine, she simply handed him her glass to refill. She served herself dinner buffet-style, but his responsibility included feeding their daughter in addition to himself. To say he did everything for her is no exaggeration. I mentioned this observation to my wife as though she hadn’t noticed; she replied that getting me to be so attentive would be difficult. I spotted a skeleton key around the woman’s neck and suggested to my wife that perhaps her husband was also in chastity, noting that people usually answer if you ask about such things. The lady didn’t quite muster the courage to inquire herself, nor did I feel it appropriate for me to step in. All I could think of was how nice it would be to serve my wife similarly. It felt incredibly fitting.

When they were ready to leave, he collected all their items and they departed. After cleanup and relaxation set in, we discussed her treatment of him and his willingness to comply with everything she says. We were amazed at how much she demands yet how well he accepts her control. I listened along, wishing for a chance to stand where he stood from my perspective. My wife was quite pleased by what she witnessed. It will be intriguing to see the impact on our own relationship during lockup time and whether it resembles theirs.