CagedThoughts Our Path Forward Together

I’m kicking off my journey. I brought up the idea of chastity to my wife a few days back (that was basically my introduction post). We sat down for a lengthy talk tonight about it, and I really appreciate reading posts in this forum that show how an open, honest dialogue should happen. I explained why I want to be locked; this isn’t just about the kink for me—it’s for us. My wife prefers that I don’t masturbate while wearing her approval. I’ve attempted abstinence before but struggled with self-control, which often left me feeling guilty because I let her down. After reviewing what I’d learned about chastity cages from both here and other non-kink sources, I asked for her go-ahead before buying a device. She pondered it over while we chatted about other matters too. Once I presented the specific model I had selected after extensive research—explaining its size, material, shape, etc.—she wasn’t overly thrilled (which is fair), but she gave her blessing to order one. Tonight, I placed an order for a hinged stainless steel Zhcage. It should arrive in roughly a month. Thanks to everyone who shares their advice here; as I move forward on this path, I hope to do the same.