jawwwbreaker Our Journey Together

I’ve been involved with chastity in one way or another for most of my life, becoming more serious about it once we got online. My wife’s interest in both BDSM and my chastity has had its ups and downs, eventually settling into a mostly vanilla dynamic over the last few years.

At that point, I was considering divorce because I felt neglected; I was also depressed and suicidal.

I found an article online about chastity and shared it with her a couple of months ago (if I locate it later, I’ll share the link). It shifted her perspective significantly, leading to her buying my first device online.

It was an A271 espresso-style plastic model, which I absolutely loved. However, its wide base ring caused pain in my testicles and groin, making 24/7 wear difficult, and it eventually broke anyway.

I tried a metal cage with a urethral attachment at the end but couldn’t keep it inserted (my wife later confirmed she didn’t want that either). Wearing just the cage made urination quite a nightmare.

Next up was an open-ended A271 version equipped with a spiked security ring, though this caused severe pain during erections.

Then came the HT nano knockoff. I really liked how it prevented erections, but even with that device, I experienced shrinkage issues that made urination difficult again.

The pinching sensation was also problematic while at work.

So now I’m back in an A271 cage without the security ring occasionally; sometimes he tucks out the back, but I just push him back inside.

My wife is very vanilla and actually enjoys PIV sex. She seems to have adapted well to a realistic strap-on device, loves her Hitachi massager, really appreciates my improved oral skills, and has adopted an every-28-day release schedule for me.

I feel happy again, and we both feel loved once more.

My current record is 5 days in chastity, but I’ve been without orgasm for 35 days.