Cold-Hearted Keeper of the key

Two weeks ago I spent two hours with an oral surgeon under anesthesia. An hour after getting home, my wife told me to lock up despite one of those surgeries was removing a mass that might have been cancerous. It wasn’t according to the lab but they still keep an eye on it to see if it develops later. Today I had foot surgery and came home woozy and she told me to lock up again. She refuses to unlock for sex or give me a ruined orgasm. All she likes doing is making my penis strain against my cage and laughing at the result. On the bright side, it looks like I will get an orgasm on our wedding anniversary at the end of the month. Then she sends me a captioned picture stating that she is having better orgasms when I am denied and sees no reason to change that. I have created a monster. I have two more hours of oral surgery (getting old is fun) tomorrow, so she will unlock me because I’ll be sedated but wants me locked up as soon as I come home. She already said no unlocking for the follow-up visits since they are just checking their work to make sure there are no infections and the stitches have dissolved. She was a very loving wife who used to unlock me if she thought I was in slight pain, but not anymore. This is the year of my wife and she is even talking as if she is leading our marriage. No formal turn over but it’s not uncommon for us older folk to have wives run the show. My memory is shot; I forget things that happened a few hours ago and get confused easily. This change to an FLR is done more out of practicality than D/s reasons.