Testing Out A New Lifestyle Path Begins

Hi all, I’ve been lurking here for a few months, and since my wife has agreed to be my KH, I wanted to share the beginning of our story. Here is some background on us. We have been happily married for three years. I am in my early thirties, she is twenty-six. We both enjoy food and staying fit, so we are in good shape physically. She is stunning—5’6” with long dark brown hair and eyes. Naturally a bit shy, but we’ve collaborated to help her feel more sure of herself when making choices. When I first met her, I was already familiar with porn and kinkier things, whereas it was all new territory for her; she wasn’t particularly kinky back then. We are very affectionate partners in a relationship built on respect, honesty, and friendship. Life together feels inseparable. We share everything openly (though maybe that changes now that she is my princess:)). We have experimented with light bondage before and tried various activities. Recently, we decided (or perhaps she just ordered me to) wear the cage as a way to curb my masturbation and porn habits. Chastity isn’t entirely foreign to us; we’ve dabbled in it before, but she wasn’t keen on it earlier because she thought it looked painful and worried about potential damage to my penis. Our first device was a plastic CB6000 knockoff model. It wasn’t very comfortable overall due to the pinching sensation. I’m not sure if I can post an image of a cage here, but if not, I’ll remove it. I recently bought a metal version similar to this one: Image The difference is huge compared to the plastic one. No pinching at all, and I am very comfortable wearing it, except when my pants are tight. I’ve always preferred handling things in a way that lets me forget about them and move on with life. I believe this tendency made me a natural submissive husband. I often took care of chores like washing dishes, making the bed, cooking for her, or bringing breakfast to bed. She grew up helping her parents and keeping house, so she naturally felt guilty seeing me do these tasks all the time, worrying that others might think she is lazy. We have discussed this many times; I love doing them because of my love for her, not out of obligation, and never feel resentful or angry. Jumping to today: She has gained confidence in herself, her choices, and seeing me handle household duties without complaint. She now better understands the chastity side of things and has agreed to explore the idea that she is the princess while I am her slave. (Is it okay to use ‘slave’ here?) I’ve encouraged her not to be too nice or feel guilty about giving orders. Now, she expects me to complete tasks without hesitation. Sometimes when I hesitate even slightly, she gives me a serious look. The start was four days ago. She told me, “If you wear the cage, it will be under my rules. You are not allowed to watch any porn or read captions, or see anything at all that I don’t approve of. You have to learn to ignore those things.” It has been challenging controlling my orgasm and viewing habits up until now. But hearing her say it like that made me want nothing more than to please her and serve only her. So I agreed. She added, “Ok, starting tomorrow morning, the FIRST thing you do after waking is put your cage on. I am going to own you until I trust you enough (to ensure you don’t masturbate when I’m away).” That was one of the sexiest things she’s said, and I was thrilled. I told her yes. The last three days have been wonderful for both of us. I’ve served her requests eagerly without hesitation. Aside from watching with her present, I haven’t looked at porn or images of naked women at all. She is very pleased with my performance and is getting quite good at playing the princess/KH role. Unfortunately, she caught a cold right as we started, so she’s been feeling under the weather lately. But this worked out well because I was able to care for her like a devoted husband:) . She loved it. We haven’t had an orgasm from either of us yet due to her illness, but that should change soon (at least for her:)). As someone new to this lifestyle, and like many before me, I am slightly unsure and nervous about what lies ahead. However, I think this is the direction I want because I have always been fascinated by serving a beautiful woman, and now I can express that desire with my wife. My struggle with masturbation has made our journey rough at times; we’ve tried so many methods to help me stop watching porn, but I believe this might be the best solution for both of us. I am very excited about where our relationship is heading if we stay on this path. Since I’m new here, I hope I haven’t broken any rules with my post.