Who's releasing tonight for the new year, and does it matter?

Two months back, my wife mentioned she wanted me to hold out for an orgasm until New Year’s Eve. I agreed it was her decision and got locked up accordingly. Since then, she’s talked about never letting me cum at all, or maybe just on our wedding anniversary since other holidays don’t really mean much to us. Yesterday, she asked whether I’d prefer having sex tomorrow or this coming weekend. She didn’t mention an orgasm though; it was just our regular night where she teases me and reaches her own climax.

Her tone suggested she isn’t planning on letting me cum until she feels compelled to do so. So far, my urge has faded. Unless something stimulates me, I stopped thinking about releasing after week four. Personally, I feel like I can keep going indefinitely, but at my age, prostate issues are a real concern; studies suggest those who release frequently have fewer problems.

I know that by how I act and speak tonight, I can signal to my wife whether I’m happy waiting longer or if I need an orgasm. Right now, I’m undecided. I enjoy the feeling of cumming but dislike what follows afterward. Also, because of a fungal infection, I currently cannot wear my chastity device. If I don’t release, I have to avoid sexual stimulation for a few more days, which is becoming difficult with everything happening on TV and online.

If I act like I’m not expecting an orgasm and show no eagerness, the next possible date would be Valentine’s Day, though I’m unsure about that too. Last year it was essentially just extended teasing because my wife felt me holding back showed my love for her. At this point, I don’t know if she even intends to give me one, or if she will simply do so because I act like I expect it, given what she said two months ago.

What do you all think? Is New Year’s Eve a significant night for orgasms?