stricter treatment while locked up

I managed to walk my wife through how orgasm denial operates, and she seems to grasp it fairly well. She isn’t keen on reading online content; she prefers listening directly to me. On top of that, since her English literacy is limited, she depends entirely on my verbal explanations.

She hasn’t fully settled into the role yet. For instance, when I spend 10 days in chastity, she often allows me a ruined orgasm. So, I requested that she be stricter next time and keep me from cumming for at least a full week. However, her idea of being strict is to lock me up without touching me whatsoever for seven days, whereas I believe I should still receive some edging because it would drive me mad.

What’s the best way to clarify this point with her?