Erock Starting Off on the Right Foot

Hi all - Here is how my story started.. I am a 30-year-old who has been jerking off consistently for nearly two decades, doing it anywhere from 3 to 8 times daily. I have never managed to reach climax during intercourse or even through oral sex. Also, I always use a condom when having sex. My partner felt self-conscious because I couldn’t finish with her alone. Eventually, she agreed to hand-jerk me, but it required significant effort from both of us, and then I started constantly asking for that relief. This prompted me to look online. I purchased a chastity cage. I discussed my issues with her; she laughed and noted that my habit wasn’t typical, preferring not to get involved in my daily routine. She couldn’t grasp why I needed to jerk off every single day. While she viewed it as cheating, she agreed we could give it a shot provided it didn’t cause pain. We experimented for several days, but her cooperation was lacking. One morning while heading to work, I spotted the key and unlocked myself to masturbate. That evening during our chat, she admitted she hadn’t realized how significant my struggle was and promised to take things more seriously now. Our objective is for me to reduce my libido so I can finish inside her during sex. It has been one week since locking up; never before have I stayed this long without masturbation. The experience is wild! There are many mental battles involved. My partner is doing well, keeping me locked and requesting massages. As a attentive boyfriend who already shares domestic duties, we prefer to avoid extreme punishment or excessive rewards; our main desire is simply curing the urge to jerk off. Knowing she is pleased that I haven’t masturbated makes me feel wonderful. The other night when I asked if I could take it out, she refused, believing the device is effective. My question for everyone - what schedule should we follow to meet our objectives? To all the key-holding women: does she seem to be enjoying this process, and should I worry? She estimates 2-3 weeks before I can attempt climaxing during sex. If it doesn’t happen within a reasonable timeframe, I will remain locked longer until my body adapts.