My Initial Days with the CB6K

Hi, I could use some advice if you don’t mind.

I recently got my CB6K to explore self-chastity. I spent a few days testing different rings and have settled on one that won’t pull out when flaccid.

Then I inserted the cage with the smallest spacer and tried it for a while. This evolved, and now I’ve found the ring and spacer combination that feels most comfortable. On day one, I wore it for 2 hours and everything was fine. The second day went to 4 hours without discomfort. Day three extended to 8 hours, which felt like too much.

The key stayed with me on day one. On day two, I left it in my bag at the office. On day three, I left it at home. After about an hour away from home, I started forgetting that I didn’t have the key and worrying less…

I’m struggling a bit and would appreciate some advice. What lube works best? I’ve been using Vaseline because it lasts long, but I’m unsure if its slipperiness is letting my penis move around too much. Also, I have a natural curve in my penis. Initially, the glans was pressed against one side of the cage, which made toilet breaks tricky. Any advice would be great; I imagine this might straighten out over time.

I also have a foreskin and am unsure whether to wear the cage with it pulled back or not. Today I wore it in its normal position but wasn’t entirely sure about the comfort level.

I’m going to stay out of my CD (clothed day) this weekend because I need a break, even though I’ve enjoyed being denied. Thanks in advance for any advice for a newbie.