Introductions discussion

Hello! I’ve just started getting into chastity. I’m not certain my interest runs as deep as most members, but I thought a specific forum would be a good spot to explore. Quick intro: I’m currently finishing up college with a physics degree. 5’4” and 122lbs, somewhere between athletic and slender. Long dark brown hair that goes past my shoulders, green/hazel eyes. My preferences: Given what I said earlier, I don’t believe my interest in chastity is as intense or devoted as most here. I prefer a dynamic where the woman isn’t too far above the man, rather than an extreme mistress/ slave setup. Also, I’m not keen on pushing myself to stay locked for months at a time. For me, about 1 month seems like enough (though who knows, that might change if I reach that stage). Right now, online play is more my style unless someone nearby shares our interests. A small note regarding why I hesitate with chastity: I’m somewhat… large for it. I doubt I’ll find a standard cage that fits without custom ordering, and even then, I’m unsure if the cost is worth it to me. So I hope discussing this more will help resolve those doubts, perhaps leading to a meaningful connection. I’ve always been drawn to dominant women. It’s hard to pinpoint exactly why, but their confidence is both admirable and attractive. This seems like a suitable place to meet one:P Naturally, I have other fetishes/interests I’d like to explore alongside chastity, but I won’t overwhelm you with them if the previous paragraphs didn’t grab your attention. I’m hoping to meet some lovely (or not so lovely;)) ladies or cool guys to chat with while I’m here.