Introductions discussion

I’m approaching retirement at age 59 and can really feel it getting closer, with just single-digit years remaining. We are in a solid relationship and have been living together for over five years. Early on, I shared that I am submissive and enjoy bondage. She is aware I visited professional dominatrices around twenty years ago, though not lately (it’s costly and doesn’t replace a healthy partnership). She also knows I’m bisexual with past relationships involving both men and women. I found out about male chastity over ten years back and now have two devices: the CB6000s and a Holy Trainer. The Holy Trainer is my favorite; it’s nearly invisible and easy to wear anywhere. I’m browsing this forum for stories on how guys brought up chastity and female-led relationships with their partners. This is the one part of me I haven’t fully revealed yet. She values equality in rights and duties, so given her past family issues, I suspect asking her to take a dominant role might be tricky. Currently, we have a stable vanilla dynamic where I mentally picture her as my mistress. When she’s away, I self-lock up and act like she’s assigned me household tasks. She appreciates it. These chores serve double duty: they show affection and let me practice my submissive lifestyle. I don’t want to wear women’s clothes, nor do I think she’d prefer that. But living as her submissive slave feels like the right path for the rest of my life.