Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

The more I read and live this chastity lifestyle over time, I am noticing an evolution of ‘stages’ between the Locked state and being Key Holder (KH). What are the major stages or phases you have evolved through? For myself, the stages have been:

1. The introduction- KH and I read and played lightly with increased sex and short lock ups.
2. The tables turned- my KH began to enjoy the benefits and wanted me to be satisfied. Lockups of a week or so with relaxed rules but more requests. I often broke the rules.
3. Just follow the rules- I became more excited about the denial and my KH got more turned on by the control. Light punishments and some spanking for not following the rules were enforced. My lock up extended to 10-14 days.
4. Lets explore the power and the kink- my KH and I introduced and tried some of the kinks to explore the power exchange. Strapon, panties, teasing toys, massage table, role play, worship, etc. She built comfort with the power and I built a craving for the kinks / submission.
5. The guilty rebellion and need for real punishment- I loved the game, but still resisted losing control of my orgasms. After disclosure, my KH got serious about spankings and real lockups. My first lock ups were 2-4 weeks and had harsh punishments for not playing by the rules. My KH started to enjoy her dominant position in most things, not just my lock. I began enjoying the strength of my KH. We played, but I was not allowed to O.
6. The demotion of my Orgasm- my KH grew in her strength and definition of her desires with clear requests for my service, submission and denial. My post O attitude became unpopular. I enjoyed the tease and denial as well as the alternative ways to get off without getting off. I desired for more intensity chasity. For the first time my KH set a target of at least 3 weeks maybe more if I mis behave. This is my current experience… I would love to here from others to see if there are any themes in the stages. As well as the experience beyond my own.