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Dear Mistress Lucy, Mrs. JackKing here, I disabled my access to CM. As you have pointed out, our lives started to revolve around Chastity and I needed to take a step back. I was spending more time on here and less on my family. But I felt I needed to leave this. It is obvious you are very well spoken and intelligent. I respect you for that. You make some very valid points. When a stranger is looking for random keyholder, it is 100% selfish and only to fulfill their fantasy. Further becoming nasty when they don’t get what they want is unacceptable. I can understand your view points and mindset on Chastity, when men have approached you in this fashion. I would be lying if I said I wouldn’t feel the same way if I were in your killer heels. The problem is when you assume to know and speak on behalf of KH Wives. When my husband brought up chastity, I had no interest. Not even a little. I couldn’t understand it. As we have all read on here, men struggle everyday to bring up their fantasies to their wives. For fear of embarrassment and rejection. Do you know how much courage and trust it takes to share your deepest fantasy with your spouse? Most men take their fantasies to the grave. I am thankful my husband was comfortable enough and trusted me with sharing his fantasy. Marriage is about love, trust and respect. You try things that you have no interest in because it interests your spouse. Sometimes you find you like it more than you thought and sometimes you don’t. It makes life more exciting trying new things you normally wouldn’t. Isn’t that what it is about? Experiencing life to the fullest? Respecting, supporting and allowing eachother to be our true selves? I don’t have to get the same thing out of chastity as my husband. I can tell you, I get nothing from putting the actual lock on and hearing it click. I get nothing from making him kiss my boots. What I get is his full attention which after a few years of marriage tends to lag. I get some spice in our sex life. I get help with the chores, extra gifts, I get exactly what I tell him I want and I dont feel bad about it. I love hearing his moans in the bedroom. I love being his fantasy. Don’t get me wrong, we have had our ups and downs. We have made mistakes. Chastity has allowed us to be open and honest. You hold yourself in such high regard. It surprises me you would stoop so low to make women feel as if they were doing themselves an injustice to explore chastity. You should use your knowledge to empower women. So before you continue to make husbands feel insecure about sharing their fantasy with their spouse, remember you haven’t experienced this side of chastity and do not speak for me.