Introductions discussion

Hello everyone, I feel it’s high time I made my debut. I am 31. My marriage to a fantastic wife is approaching its fifth anniversary. Kink has always been part of who I am, and our journey over these past five years brought me here. While I lean towards the kinky side, my partner isn’t quite as much into it. She doesn’t have a huge interest in partnered sex. That isn’t to say her libido is low; she maintains herself regularly and does watch adult content. It’s just not that compelling for her on its own. For someone like me with high desires and a kinkier nature, this has been quite the hurdle. I’ve mostly satisfied my urges through masturbation and watching porn over the last few years, with some occasional sex sprinkled in. These experiences have driven me to dig deeper into FLRs, chastity devices, and related concepts. Roughly six months back, I broached these topics with her. She found it interesting, but progress has been gradual because she doesn’t want to feel constantly pressured to act dominant over me. We purchased a holy trainer for me, which I’ve worn intermittently. Luckily, I’m disciplined enough to manage the device myself without needing her constant oversight. A few months later, we aimed for conception, which was exciting—we managed intercourse three times in one week! She conceived, and since then… no more sex:p Recently, my wife, who has always known I watch porn and tolerated it to some extent, declared that she wants me to stop. In other circumstances this might sting, but I see it as her taking charge, setting boundaries for what I can or cannot do. This gives me a bit of hope. Since then, I’ve avoided any content featuring bare female bodies, sticking strictly to clothed and censored visuals. I’m hoping that by proceeding gently, she will become more engaged in building an FLR dynamic between us. Only time will tell…