Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hi everyone,

I’m dealing with a rather frustrating issue: putting on my chastity cage is really difficult for me. When it’s time to wear it, I take quite a while before the cage is properly fitted.

First off, I get too excited and my erection obviously doesn’t help make things easier. Putting on the ring is the easiest part, but once that’s done, I’m so hard up that I have to wait a long time for myself to go soft again.

Then comes the second problem. I have quite a long foreskin, so when I push the cage onto me, my foreskin gets stuck against the “walls” because I get hard immediately. Finally, once I do soften inside the cage, the head of my penis ends up exposed while the rest of the skin remains trapped between the cage and the ring.

I hope that explanation was clear; I can provide pictures if absolutely necessary.

In any case, the main issue is that it takes me up to 30 minutes to get my cage properly put on.

I’ve already tried a few solutions to stop myself from getting hard, such as using cold, but those haven’t worked..

Hoping you’ll give me your best advice!