Introductions discussion

Hi there. I’ve been following this site for a long time and have finally decided to become a member myself. My wife (KH) and I have been married for 33 years.

Back in March 2014, I brought up the idea of chastity with her, and I’ve been wearing one ever since. Initially, we set up an agreement; while she was willing to give it a try, she didn’t want to be the one holding the key at first. I began using a CB6Ks, but I ran into some problems and could seldom wear it through the whole night. After taking measurements based on that device, I ordered a Jailbird from Mistress MM, which arrived in April 2014. It fit well immediately, allowing me to keep it on around the clock.

About a month after receiving my JB, she agreed to hold the key and we dropped our written agreement. Since then, she has grown quite used to seeing me locked up, and both our relationship and sexual life have improved significantly. At first, she felt bad about denying me orgasms, but now it’s second nature for us; I often go three months between them.

Over the years with the JB, I noticed the ring was getting loose on me, so I wanted a tighter cage fit. After ordering some sizing rings and chatting extensively via email and phone with both Mistress MM and William, I ordered a new JB featuring a smaller oval double-ring setup. I also reduced the diameter of the cage body, narrowed the gap between plates, and decreased the length from 1-1/4” down to exactly 1” (yes, that’s correct).

I got this new Jailbird on Monday, and it fits perfectly. Once I’ve worn it for a few more days, I’ll post a proper review, but so far everything is going smoothly.