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My wife (who holds the key) and I started our chastity journey back in February, staying locked almost constantly since then, except for times when she lets me out to pleasure herself. At first, I expected a classic experience with teasing and denial. However, my Keyholder isn’t particularly dominant, which has held true throughout this experiment. She loves sex too much to keep my member permanently shut; dildos just don’t quite satisfy her the same way. While she does let me stroke her and reach an orgasm without unlocking me, she often releases me afterward so we can have intercourse. We’ve discussed teasing and denial activities, but she feels bad keeping me from climaxing and loves watching me cum too much to deny it entirely. I’m not sure if she’ll fully embrace the T&D lifestyle, but she enjoys having me locked up and seeing proof of it (we call them ‘proof pics’) whenever she asks during the day. Usually, a simple text with an emoji suffices. Her pleasure in chastity isn’t about denying me; rather, it’s knowing I won’t get erections unless she permits it, that she is present for it, and that I certainly won’t cum without her say-so. My joy comes from the daily wear of the device, constantly feeling its presence and knowing it belongs to her alone. Overall, this experience has boosted our mutual libido and created playful teasing and more erotic conversation between us.
After trying a few different devices, we are currently using a Jailbird knock-off, though we occasionally deal with testicular slip-outs during certain activities. We’re now considering purchasing the authentic version from Mature Metal.
So even if we aren’t doing it exactly by the book, we are having plenty of fun!