Chastity device discussions and reviews discussion

I’m trying to find the right cage for me. I have a dominant personality and am looking for my own cage for playtime and dares that lead into chastity, rather than handing keys over to a Mistress or Key Holder. What I’d ideally like is something similar to the Jail House I currently have (a rigid post at the top for the lock, plus two posts holding it together) because it keeps the space between the cage and ring fixed and short. However, I also want a hinged ring so that putting it on and taking it off is easier. I’m considering how quickly it might come off if my wife decides she’s done with the back rubs and foot rubs and wants to play with “our” toy. I like how the Jailbird fits around the balls, but I appreciate the ease of removing the “whatever this thing is ( I’m looking for a middle ground, ideally at an affordable price since I’m still learning the ropes. Thoughts?