Female led relationships discussion

Not sure if this is where I should be posting, but here goes. I’m curious to find out how many CB wearers feel let down because they can take off or otherwise bypass the device’s security. Some argue that it doesn’t matter if the cage comes off without a key, and that the wearer shouldn’t remove it because doing so breaks trust or their pledge. I get that point. However, when I first started wearing a device, I was thrilled because I thought escape was impossible. Once I realized how easy it was to get out, my interest waned. I feel that if you can easily exit the device, why wear one at all? You might as well save your money and rely on the honour system. For men especially, I believe the goal is total submission to the Mistress with absolutely no chance of removal without her permission. This isn’t about which specific model is superior; it’s more about choosing complete loss of control if given the option.