Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone, I’ve been watching from the sidelines for a few months, and I feel it’s time to jump in. I’ve been married three years, but together eight. Before my wife entered the picture, I used a CB3K (or something similar) for short stretches without a keyholder; I’d wear it for days at a time while playing sports, so longer lockups weren’t feasible until she moved in and I tossed the device. Recently, chastity has been on my mind more often as I browse photos and real-life blogs here. Unlike some others in this space, my main concern isn’t whether my wife will understand, but rather that she might enjoy it too much. We’ve done plenty of kinky play before, usually at fetish clubs, yet our home dynamic remains quite traditional. Part of me wants to hand over control, while another part worries about the consequences (“be careful what you wish for”). I’m currently eyeing the uberkinky stainless spiral cage. It’s a reasonable entry price, and I believe my wife will appreciate its appearance—perhaps even more than expected. Depending on how things progress, the steelworxx models with integral locks look promising; I recall the clinking sound of the padlock needing to be secured around it. I tend to take my time making decisions like this, but I’ll update you all as events unfold. Thanks for reading.